Yikes. Bullshit articles full of lies and half truths really piss me off…especially when it comes to the current, modern day myths about the female orgasm. It’s a rare woman these days who can really experience what should be an everyday, several times a day event. I daresay that if women really had them, we wouldn’t see so many sexually dysfunctional ladies in this world.

THIS IS VERY ADULT IN NATURE. Consider yourself warned!!

The truth is, only one in four women regularly has an orgasm during intercourse, and a third rarely or never do. This news may be reassuring — or depressing. But what’s healthy when it comes to orgasms, anyway? To find out, Health went in search of a sexual reality check and uncovered everything (well, almost everything) you’ll ever want to know about the Big O.

One in four sounds about right to me. Less than half…and it’s because of the emotional garbage they carry. What’s healthy when it comes to orgasms?? A LOT you stupid dingbat!!!

It’s true that the female orgasm is definitely “hot,” says Dorian Solot, a sex educator and co-author with her partner of the forthcoming “I Love Female Orgasm: From ‘Right There’ to ‘Oh, Yeah!’ and Everything in Between.” “Once upon a time,” says Solot’s partner, Marshall Miller, “a ‘real man’ cared only about his own pleasure and ignored female satisfaction entirely.” No more. And not a moment too soon, right? After all, there’s no question that orgasms are part of a healthy sex life. When the Earth moves, you’re working those muscles, releasing tension, and bonding with your partner — all good things.

Oh bulloney. Literature from WAY back suggests women have been experiencing orgasms since the beginning of time. This lady needs to get her facts right.

Yet even as Top 10 lists and titillating TV shows give women’s orgasms the importance they’ve lacked for years, sexperts including Solot contend that pop culture doesn’t quite get it. For starters, women aren’t built like men (that’s no surprise). And when it comes to orgasm during intercourse, it can be quite a challenge getting all the right parts (the clitoris, in particular) lined up for pleasure. Kind of like Jupiter aligning with Mars. “The myth of the century is that all women should have orgasms from intercourse,” Solot says.

Getting it all lined up?? No. See this is a very big misconception, that is presently a major cause of radical feminism. Women who experience vaginal orgasms say they are 100 times better than those clitoral BOREGASMS that everyone is so…into…these days.
A good portion of people don’t think a vaginal orgasm is possible. And that’s too bad because once you have one, nothing less is acceptable! The boreGasmic oral sex becomes dull and literally something to fall asleep on. Problem is, radical feminists refuse to even admit vaginal orgasms can happen. They make all sorts of claims about this. And women for the past 30 years have bought this bullshit. They don’t even try! And the men?? They have grown accustomed to believing there are no better ways to stimulate a woman then thru oral sex- they let it rule the way they behave during sex. Some of these myths fall into the male world too, I am sorry to say. Size does matter in these things. Too often we hear “It’s not the size that counts, it’s how it’s used” is a lie.

Most women need clitoral stimulation to climax, and that’s not automatic. “You can get it if the sexual position allows for friction,” says Laura Berman, Ph.D., assistant clinical professor of psychiatry and OB-GYN at the Feinberg School of Medicine at Northwestern University. But it can take time and practice to find that position. And if you don’t? Berman, who’s also the director of the based Berman Center, a health-care facility in Chicago, Illinois, that helps women improve their sex lives, recommends using a vibrator during intercourse to help you reach orgasm or trying other tricks to boost your sexual satisfaction.

Uh huh…not so fast. One doesn’t need friction. One doesn’t need touching. One does need to be totally into achieving an orgasm and one also has to let go of any emotional baggage and self confidence issues they have. You don’t need a GAWD damned toy either! Women spend a lot time worrying about THINGS. They get all caught up in their emotions and — indeed– caught up in acts of phoneyness that take away energy needed to get that BIG O. I will say- it does take a lot of work and determination to reach that goal. It doesn’t happen right away. People have to be patient and they have to be able to control themselves.

It’s also no secret that some women, some of the time, are satisfied with non-orgasmic sex. “Orgasm is not the pinnacle for all women,” says psychologist Dennis Sugrue, Ph.D., a past-president of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists. “The usual model suggests that if the orgasm doesn’t occur, somehow the sexual experience got derailed. I don’t think this does us service in terms of understanding women and their sexuality.”

Women who shortchange themselves out of an orgasm are just plain dumb. There is no other way to put it. Women who don’t have an orgasm are not trying hard enough- and they are preoccupied with something else. They’re not INTO it.

In fact, many women tend to want intimacy and a sense of connection just as much as an orgasm even more so. “That is very true,” says sex researcher Beverly Whipple, Ph.D., author of “The Science of Orgasm.” “You have to remember that whatever is pleasurable and satisfying can be an end in itself.”

Science of Orgasm?? Go away nerds. These morOns are just trying to convince women it’s OK to not have an orgasm. They’re trying to justify this with claims of being intimate and in love and all that crap is…just as good…NOT. The human orgasm does not require love to be good. Sorry. This is just a fact. The human body is designed to reproduce…by making our bodies experience awesome feelings while doing the act that leads to reproduction is nature at it’s best.

The pressure that women feel to be orgasmic isn’t just coming from all the hot sex in the media, Miller says. It’s also a response to the urging of partners, some well-intentioned and some not. And that can add up to a lot of pleasure-killing pressure. “Today, many guys measure their worth” by whether they can make their partner climax, Miller explains.
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“Sex was all about him showing off,” she says. “I felt like he wanted me to have an orgasm to show how great he was that he could do that.” The power play backfired, though. Johnson was anxious, frustrated, and distracted by his narcissism.

This is the one thing I totally agree with in this article. There is NOTHING more boRing and dull than a man who is out to prove his abilities by being an egocentric idiOt. I do feel sorry for these guys though because they are victims of a warped feminist lie…the common rules of a sexual encounter turn me right off and I will get up and walk out. As will all my friends. The typical she gets first then he gets is just not my idea of a good time. These guys have never seen a woman have a real orgasm- of the intense variety that can only be felt during intercourse. So, yes they bore me but I do have a little empathy here.