Comments on: The Price of Youthful Oat Sowing http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/15/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/ Live Free Or Die Mon, 15 Mar 2010 04:22:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Raven http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/15/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/comment-page-1/#comment-69197 Raven Thu, 16 Aug 2007 20:44:25 +0000 http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/14/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/#comment-69197 AHH YEA BAS: The Five F's...so slick and cool. Now a days girls know of them and are taught that it's OK to allow boyz to treat them this way. In fact girls are coached on how to react when each F comes at them. It really isn't good. Esp. when we consider the one F isn't even [whatcan'tbesaidhere]- it's much more degrading. Consider too- we have drug companies making vaccines for girls to protect them from diseases they get from boyz...HPV for example. It's documented that a boy starts the disease cycle with HPV...and passes it to girls, and so on and on. They pretend this vaccine is for cervical cancer prevention but thats not what it's really about. AHH YEA BAS:

The Five F’s…so slick and cool. Now a days girls know of them and are taught that it’s OK to allow boyz to treat them this way. In fact girls are coached on how to react when each F comes at them.

It really isn’t good. Esp. when we consider the one F isn’t even [whatcan'tbesaidhere]- it’s much more degrading.

Consider too- we have drug companies making vaccines for girls to protect them from diseases they get from boyz…HPV for example. It’s documented that a boy starts the disease cycle with HPV…and passes it to girls, and so on and on. They pretend this vaccine is for cervical cancer prevention but thats not what it’s really about.

]]> By: Raven http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/15/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/comment-page-1/#comment-69196 Raven Thu, 16 Aug 2007 20:38:41 +0000 http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/14/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/#comment-69196 Seth, the dress "code" of the day is the result of oversexed older people who wish to push their agenda upon the younger generations...the Flower Power people of the 60's are todays' older people--- the liberal flower powers are who we can thank for ALL of this. The anything goes crowd...the feminists...the generation of dopeheads and dingbats. Hopefully people will outgrow this stupid shit and let girls be girls. Seth, the dress “code” of the day is the result of oversexed older people who wish to push their agenda upon the younger generations…the Flower Power people of the 60’s are todays’ older people— the liberal flower powers are who we can thank for ALL of this. The anything goes crowd…the feminists…the generation of dopeheads and dingbats.

Hopefully people will outgrow this stupid shit and let girls be girls.

]]> By: Bigfoot http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/15/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/comment-page-1/#comment-69188 Bigfoot Thu, 16 Aug 2007 14:06:52 +0000 http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/14/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/#comment-69188 Another aspect of what young people have to deal with is what is called the "get laid" culture, which is foisted on boys starting during their teen years. According to this perverted ethic, a male is a failure as a person if he's not "gettin' some". Any boy who starts acting accordingly in turn starts treating girls in the ways described in your post, as useable and throwaway sex objects. Or as someone in college (way back when) used to put it, the five F's: Find them, Flatter them, Feel them, [censored] them, and Forget them. Thank God that I kept enough of my morals (instilled by my parents and few Catholic nuns) not to go down that road. Another aspect of what young people have to deal with is what is called the “get laid” culture, which is foisted on boys starting during their teen years. According to this perverted ethic, a male is a failure as a person if he’s not “gettin’ some”. Any boy who starts acting accordingly in turn starts treating girls in the ways described in your post, as useable and throwaway sex objects. Or as someone in college (way back when) used to put it, the five F’s: Find them, Flatter them, Feel them, [censored] them, and Forget them. Thank God that I kept enough of my morals (instilled by my parents and few Catholic nuns) not to go down that road.

]]> By: Seth http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/15/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/comment-page-1/#comment-69186 Seth Thu, 16 Aug 2007 08:25:38 +0000 http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/14/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/#comment-69186 Excellent post, Raven, and right on point. When I was in, I think, the 9th grade in New York, girls were "battling" to be able to wear jeans to school instead of skirts. Now I see girls the same age dressing and make-uping like Hollywood's conception of hookers. I often wonder how their parents feel about this, assuming they have any feelings at all about it. I think a lot of this comes from an urge to be "popular" and, given the hubris of the young, no conception that mistakes made in youth can follow one for life. Excellent post, Raven, and right on point.

When I was in, I think, the 9th grade in New York, girls were “battling” to be able to wear jeans to school instead of skirts. Now I see girls the same age dressing and make-uping like Hollywood’s conception of hookers. I often wonder how their parents feel about this, assuming they have any feelings at all about it.

I think a lot of this comes from an urge to be “popular” and, given the hubris of the young, no conception that mistakes made in youth can follow one for life.

]]> By: Raven http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/15/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/comment-page-1/#comment-69177 Raven Wed, 15 Aug 2007 21:43:31 +0000 http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/14/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/#comment-69177 BAS, yes, the buck stops with us. My experience shows me that kids without parents, those who runaway or who otherwise end up parentless, have FAR MORE SELF RESPECT and CONFIDENCE then those who are so called, LUCKY. I think kids who are left to their own doings turn out smarter than most of think...the streets have a way of showing folks what life is all about. Good life and BAD life. Sure, these kids are smartasses and mouthy and rude, but they're not going to be walked all over, sexually abused or exploited if they manage to end up at a college campus. BAS, yes, the buck stops with us. My experience shows me that kids without parents, those who runaway or who otherwise end up parentless, have FAR MORE SELF RESPECT and CONFIDENCE then those who are so called, LUCKY. I think kids who are left to their own doings turn out smarter than most of think…the streets have a way of showing folks what life is all about. Good life and BAD life. Sure, these kids are smartasses and mouthy and rude, but they’re not going to be walked all over, sexually abused or exploited if they manage to end up at a college campus.

]]> By: Raven http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/15/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/comment-page-1/#comment-69176 Raven Wed, 15 Aug 2007 21:39:07 +0000 http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/14/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/#comment-69176 Jay G, you're just like my dauhter's DAD. He has the same motto. And he did indeed meet the young men and showcase his major gun collections, and he showed them movies of his days in the Marines and how he taught his daughters to shoot (to kill). LOL!!! My X is a big guy too, and he towered over any boyfriend by a mile. He was just...always...there...lurking...in the background...assessing...watching...and it worked. The scums were scared off as they should have been; the good ones were able to gain his respect after many many dates; the ok ones pissed their pants and that was THAT. :mrgreen::mrgreen: Jay G, you’re just like my dauhter’s DAD. He has the same motto. And he did indeed meet the young men and showcase his major gun collections, and he showed them movies of his days in the Marines and how he taught his daughters to shoot (to kill). LOL!!! My X is a big guy too, and he towered over any boyfriend by a mile. He was just…always…there…lurking…in the background…assessing…watching…and it worked. The scums were scared off as they should have been; the good ones were able to gain his respect after many many dates; the ok ones pissed their pants and that was THAT. :mrgreen::mrgreen:

]]> By: Raven http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/15/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/comment-page-1/#comment-69174 Raven Wed, 15 Aug 2007 21:32:21 +0000 http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/14/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/#comment-69174 Duncan I wouldn't bash yourself too much over the things you mention. TV shows are terrible these days. We rarely watched it when my daughters were young. News, and documentaries and the like were popular in my house. And we bought many episodes of family friendly sitcoms from long ago. I would be more concerned with clothing, books, movies, magazines, music and video games. Even freakin video games are sexual now! Magazines and mail order houses are esp dangerous - think Victorias Secret- where girls learn that a special bra will make them look bigger, which equals better. One thing Dads can do is show respect for any and all women. That's difficult to do. Imagine watching the news, and along comes a story about Hillary Clinton. Sure...she makes most guys want to gag, but...to your daughter Hillary is just another woman. When men react like sick dogs to the sight of her, it teaches things we don't want to be taught. Same with Moms and the sight of Teddy Kennedy. Dads must show respect towards all women, and they shouldn't get overly excited when they see the sexy, but very fake cheerleaders and Paris Hilton types. Duncan I wouldn’t bash yourself too much over the things you mention. TV shows are terrible these days. We rarely watched it when my daughters were young. News, and documentaries and the like were popular in my house. And we bought many episodes of family friendly sitcoms from long ago.

I would be more concerned with clothing, books, movies, magazines, music and video games. Even freakin video games are sexual now! Magazines and mail order houses are esp dangerous – think Victorias Secret- where girls learn that a special bra will make them look bigger, which equals better.
One thing Dads can do is show respect for any and all women. That’s difficult to do. Imagine watching the news, and along comes a story about Hillary Clinton. Sure…she makes most guys want to gag, but…to your daughter Hillary is just another woman. When men react like sick dogs to the sight of her, it teaches things we don’t want to be taught. Same with Moms and the sight of Teddy Kennedy.

Dads must show respect towards all women, and they shouldn’t get overly excited when they see the sexy, but very fake cheerleaders and Paris Hilton types.

]]> By: Raven http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/15/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/comment-page-1/#comment-69173 Raven Wed, 15 Aug 2007 21:22:50 +0000 http://andrightlyso.com/2007/08/14/the-price-of-youthful-oat-sowing/#comment-69173 Kat I decided NOT to go into the details of these acts and performances. Because they are not what we think...girls doing lesbian sex acts in front of the boyz, for their pleasure and no one else's; girls doing three or four boyz at the same time, using every orifice of their bodies; girls being urinated on (Water sports, squirting games); three, four girls doing one boy...ect ect very raunchy, crude, rude. And degrading. And just unhealthy... I dare say some of this more extreme wild girl stuff began when society decided to TAME the little boyz and make them sissies. Sissies grew up and knew no boundaries or ethics or manners or respect of others. But they did know and do think they are entitled to this gratification/exploitation. Fathers are very influential in this. I think it's very important to expose girls to this awful stuff. So they know it. So they can see it, hear it, and see how phoney and fake it all really is. As parents we tend to shield our kids from the bads of life. We shouldn't do that because the kids grow up not knowing what it all LOOKS like. They don't realize it until it's too late, that they are LIVING it. Denial is a powerful thought process. Kat I decided NOT to go into the details of these acts and performances. Because they are not what we think…girls doing lesbian sex acts in front of the boyz, for their pleasure and no one else’s; girls doing three or four boyz at the same time, using every orifice of their bodies; girls being urinated on (Water sports, squirting games); three, four girls doing one boy…ect ect very raunchy, crude, rude. And degrading. And just unhealthy…

I dare say some of this more extreme wild girl stuff began when society decided to TAME the little boyz and make them sissies. Sissies grew up and knew no boundaries or ethics or manners or respect of others. But they did know and do think they are entitled to this gratification/exploitation.

Fathers are very influential in this.

I think it’s very important to expose girls to this awful stuff. So they know it. So they can see it, hear it, and see how phoney and fake it all really is. As parents we tend to shield our kids from the bads of life. We shouldn’t do that because the kids grow up not knowing what it all LOOKS like. They don’t realize it until it’s too late, that they are LIVING it. Denial is a powerful thought process.

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